Miss Gender (video)

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Best friends for years, Jay Frosting and Ashley talk about what it's like as Ashley figures out how she goes about transitioning from one gender to another. Discussions include how Ashley came to realize she’s transgender, coming out to parents and other family members, mulling over how to handle things at work, and simply trying to get the hang of being a woman.

Thanksgiving Jan. 16, 2012
Over Thanksgiving, Ashley’s parents reveal that they still misunderstand her transgender status, claiming that she’s cross-dressing and that she’s making...
Sexytime Dec. 31, 2011
Jay figures it’s time to ask Ashley about sex and romance as a trans woman, asking her about underwear preferences,...
Catcalling Dec. 15, 2011
Ashley gets catcalled and wolf whistled at while entering Target and feels a little apprehensive, but also feels a little...
Clothes & Shopping Nov. 30, 2011
Jay asks Ashley if she had considered wearing a wig until her hair had grown out to a length that...
Call Me Ashley? Nov. 21, 2011
Ashley talks about her parents’ recent visit and how she asked them to consider calling her Ashley rather than her...
Ashley attached her Flip camera-sized camcorder to her shower door (with a Gorillapod flexible tripod) and recorded her makeup routine the morning of her transition at work through the reflection in an adjacent mirror. Then, among the editing process,
Out at Work Nov. 14, 2011
Ashley celebrates her first week presenting as her gender full-time, with warm words and open arms from her coworkers, a more comfortable wardrobe (as well as a new laptop bag), and some entirely unremarkable bathroom visits.
Pronouns & History Nov. 7, 2011
Ashley's work finally makes the announcements to her coworkers about her transgender status, albeit with the grace of someone tripping down a flight of stairs, leading to cringes from herself and several of her team members.
The Tricky Part 2 Oct. 31, 2011
Ashley's work runs into some last-minute delays around finalizing her announcement and transition dates. Ashley also talks about her mundane experiences using the ladies' room at shops and businesses outside of work and is taken aback when her company'...
The Tricky Part Oct. 24, 2011
Jay asks Ashley about laser hair removal (or at least reduction) on her face and checks in on how things are progressing on Ashley’s decision to grow her hair out. - Ashley also explains her frustration after transition delays at work,
Coming Out to My Boss Oct. 18, 2011
Ashley explains how she prepared to come out to her boss, with some help from the Human Rights Campaign, and her conversation with the boss to start the process around her transition at work. - Ashley also ponders an upcoming visit from her parents an...
Surgeries Oct. 5, 2011
Ashley talks with Jay about how she keeps her boobs under wraps at work and why she hasn’t come out to her boss just yet. - Ashley also educates Jay about some potential surgical options including facial feminization surgery (FFS) and sexual reassignm...
Therapy & Hormones Sept. 26, 2011
After coming out to herself, Ashley set about finding a gender counselor to help her wrap her head around things. After several months of counseling, she felt the time was right to start hormone replacement therapy as a first step toward aligning her p...
Coming Out to My Family Sept. 17, 2011
Ashley had come out to many of her friends and a few coworkers, but hadn't yet come out to her family. She knew that was her next step. - You can play either the audio or video versions below. - Get new episodes automatically by subscribing with iTun...
After coming out to herself, Ashley worked on coming out to her friends and her coworkers. You can play either...
Coming Out to Myself Sept. 4, 2011
After twenty years of frustration, Ashley is embarking on the first steps of her transition. This first episode of Miss...